STEP OUT!!!

Relationship requires more than mere face-to-face communication. It needs each partner’s constant involvement. In a situation where this is not equal, I mean where there is no such balance then it is not a healthy relationship.

The truth is, women, often don’t notice the missing point in their relationship. A woman gives more and more to make her relationship works, and she would be blind to notice that her partner fails to or is not contributing as well.

I have been in this situation before. It was the time that I gave so much. I never bother to notice that my partner hardly cares. I just kept giving without caution. I gave my comfort to let peace reign. I put in all my energy to make it work. I sacrificed so much just to be noticed that I am contributing.

I knew I am not the only one in this. I know that there are several women in this same issue. And I know you are one of us. You know what? It may be funny but it seems that every woman is bond ti experience this.

It is like an eye opener to life – like a lesson for all women to learn so that we can be more ready to move on to a better relationship.

I believe this so much because the day I stop giving so much, and the day I realised that I had been the only partner contributing the more, turned out to be the day I embraced liberty.

I never made such mistake anymore. I am happier now and that’s the way I want my life to be. I don’t have a home where my man pretend to contribute too but does not. I have a home where both of us are together in it to make our harmony works.

This is why I want you to be extremely careful with your choice. If you notice you are the only one who is interested in moving forward your relationship and your partner knows but doesn’t seem to bother, then I implore you to talk this with him.

If he is not willing to change, then move out. I mean- STEP OUT! I won’t encourage you to stay in there and be waiting for him to change. The truth is he will never get changed by you.

If I hadn’t step out of that relationship where I was the only one contributing to it, I wouldn’t have met my husband.

Do not worry about the number of years you spend together. What you need to focus on is the number of fruitful years out there waiting for you.

To your Single Motherhood Success!

What You Must Know

The life of a mother is not different from the life of a woman. The only distinct different is the conception of a child.

Apart for that, a woman will forever remains a woman whether she has a child or not.

And many things are to be taken into consideration by a woman with child. When you are a mother, then you have a concrete responsibility even if you still don’t want to accept this.

That child of yours did not come begging you to be born. You are the one who spread-eagled your legs so high and might welcome in the child. It is your choice.

For this reason
- You must be there 100% to cater for the child.
- In a society where everyone works nearly twenty-four hours, you must create enough time to be with your child.
- Do not maltreat your child just to seek retaliation for your break up with the father of your child. This is no fault of the child and doing you, you are incurring the wrath of God. I knew many mothers do this but the question is; why should a mother maltreats her own child?

- Be ready for close & personal relationship with your child. Let your closeness be more than that of mother and child. Create a friendship bond so strong and full of security.

- Listen to your child. You can’t conclude that all is well with your baby when you don’t listen. Every child wants to confide in someone. And it will be to your shame when your son or daughter goes out to your neighbours to discuss issues with them. Many children I have heard say their mothers don’t listen to them. Some said their mothers won’t believe them.

Does it worth it giving birth to a child when you are not able to care for it?

That you are single does not prevent you having the best of time with your child. You are made for happiness and you deserve it!

Go for it!

To your Single Motherhood Success!