Whether you like it or Not

With the recent economy depression, many mothers no longer have the choice than to double their jobs. Most of them are single mothers, which makes everything too challenging for them.

For the reason, their children stay alone the more because at that time they are at home, their mothers are at work. Nonetheless, the truth is children need someone to guide them and teach them about life.

And who is this person? YOU!

You may not want to agree with me but I must be very clear with you and I would like you to personally answer these questions,

1) Who are you working for?

2) Why do you decided to work two jobs? For what purpose?

3) Why do you have child (ren) if you cannot be available for them?

Today, many children are missing all over the world and majority of these children got lost when they are alone without their mothers protecting them. If you hear a child missing, try to find out how it happened and you will hear that the child was alone when he or she was kidnapped. Maybe you should ask where was the mother when her child was being snatched from her.

Believe me, you won’t want your child (ren) missing forever BECAUSE you love them and because you are a good mother.

So I want you to do this for them so that you will be appreciated as their mother,

A) Pray for them.

It is not possible to raise God-fearing children without prayer. They need your prayer, and your intervention to God concerning their lives. You are their mother and more than that you serve as keeper because God gives them to you not just like that but because He (God) knows you are capable of praying for them. Through your intercession, they are protected, secure and grow up to accomplish their perfect destiny.

B) Get organised. Create that missing space for your children.

Do not go off to your night job all the time without taking into account what your children are doing, how they are faring in their studies, what emotions they hold up in their heart that they are looking for someone to confide in. Spend times with your child (ren). I repeat, SPEND TIME with them.

C) Double job, less stress

Earning money is great and when you are able to pay all your debt, you will feel at peace with your self BUT when you are working so hard, nearly 24 hours non-stop in double work without relaxing, then you are going to crack!

I bet you are not doing yourself any favour when you have two jobs but less salary. If you are desperate about going on with this double work even though you know the payment is not good, I implore you to take a long pause, think about this. No matter what, your child (ren) is more important than your job(s).

D) Take care of yourself

You are not a wood. You are a unique being and to crown it all, you are a woman. Live your life with joy, without stress and if there is any thing that bothers you, try to solve it or throw it away. You have just one life so make it your ultimate duty to be happy at all time. Take good care of your self, your body, your soul, your hair, your face, your teeth, your eyes, your make-up and you will love this and of course, your child (ren) will be happy too for you?

So whether you like it or not, YOU ARE A MOTHER and a UNIQUE ONE!

To Your Single-Motherhood Success!